Moving with Children: Tips and Experiences
Children and moving
Moving is a big step, not just for adults but especially for children. Whether you are moving within the Netherlands or emigrating abroad, a move often means a completely new environment, new routines, and new social contacts. How can you make the transition as smooth as possible for your children?
Involve your children in the process
It’s important to include children from the very beginning of the moving process. By involving them, you make them feel part of this major change. Some ways to do this include:
Bring familiar belongings
It’s important for children to have familiar items in a new environment. Think of their own bed, duvet, favorite stuffed toy, or a beanbag they love. Research shows that familiar items help reduce stress and create a sense of “home” faster.
While it can be tempting to buy everything new during a move, children benefit from having recognizable items with them. This is especially true if you are temporarily staying in storage or traveling with a caravan. A few personal items can make a big difference.
Saying goodbye and making a fresh start
Closing the old home and environment is just as important as starting something new. Plan a moment to say goodbye together. Let children share memories or draw a picture of their old room.
Also, saying goodbye to friends, classmates, and the old school is essential. Consider organizing a farewell party or exchanging contact information so they can stay in touch. Some schools even allow online lessons so children can remain connected to their old class.
Building a new social circle
One of the biggest challenges of moving is building a new social circle, both for you and your children. This can be exciting and is an opportunity to make new friends and discover new hobbies.
- Sign your children up for clubs or activities: Horse riding, football, dance classes – choose something they enjoy. This helps them make new friends quickly.
- Explore the neighborhood together: Visit playgrounds, local events, or other meeting spots for children.
- Stay in touch with old friends: Schedule video calls or meetups when possible to maintain connections while adjusting to the new environment.
School and administrative matters
Changing schools is a significant part of moving. To ease the transition:
- Stay in contact with the old school: Ask if your child can attend a lesson or do exercises online with their old class. This provides a sense of continuity.
- Ensure a warm welcome at the new school: Discuss with the school how they can help your child feel at home quickly, e.g., through a tour or a buddy system.
Moving is an adventure for children!
Although moving can be challenging for children, it’s also an opportunity for new experiences. By involving them step by step and paying attention to their feelings, you can make moving a shared adventure.
If you have a move planned soon, involve your children, bring familiar belongings, and balance saying goodbye with starting anew. This way, moving becomes not only a practical challenge but also a valuable memory for the whole family.
